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Google the question Is Blogging Dead? and you get hundreds upon hundreds of, ironically enough, blog posts discussing just that.

Maybe in some circles blogging is dying. Maybe in other circles blogging is simply changing and evolving. I know there is one circle where blogging is alive, it’s growing and, I think, is in no danger of dying out. That is the wide and varied circle  made up of moms who blog.

Why? Because mom blogs are not generally just about raking in ad revue or selling swamp land in Florida. They’re about connecting.

Some moms blog about family life, some about being a WHAM, some about photography, some about being frugal.  The subjects are as unique and diverse as the women who write about them. But ask moms who blog, and most will tell you it started out as a desire to share and reach out beyond themselves.

You can pour out your heart on your blog, and receive a dozen supportive comments from other moms in the same situation.

You can read a post from another mom, and know you’re not the only one.

There are so many women out there who’s writing moves us to tears, brings a smile to our face, makes us laugh out loud. Because they are putting into words feelings and experiences that we all share.

This circle of moms who blog is a community in a world where community is becoming increasingly rare. We’re so busy with so many activities, there isn’t time for weekly coffee klatches and bridge clubs. But at nap time or the end of the day when the kids are in bed, we can steal a few minutes with the computer.

Some worry that social media is driving us into our homes and away from each other. But for moms who are often isolated already by their family responsibilities blogging, Facebook, and Twitter are all ways to say in touch with the rest of the world. And blogging, more than any of those mediums, allows us to express ourselves fully.

As long as women are giving birth and raising children there will be the need to vent, to express joy, to share sorrows.

And they will blog about it.

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I’ve been surfing the Bloggy Giveaways this week, and a lot of people want to know how to improve their blogs. I don’t want to single out people and hurt anyone’s feelings, so here’s a general tip for everyone. If you want people to comeback, make sure it doesn’t take an eternity for your page to load. I understand you want to earn money from advertising and you’ve got lots of photos and cool graphics to show off, but if people have to wait forever for your blog to to come up, they probably won’t be back. Nothing is more frustrating than sitting and drumming your fingers on the table while your computer says, “waiting for…” at the bottom. Do a little house cleaning, re-size the graphics, loose some of the junk in the sidebar. If your pages load faster, we’ll actually have time to stick around and read what you have to say.

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My sister-in-law over at A Cup of Joy and I are launching a new blog, Virtual Chocolate. It’s a blog about all things chocolate. You’ll find articles about places to shop, places to visit, recipes and anything else we can find to write about our favorite treat. Stop by and have a look around. We’re just getting started so visit often to see what’s new. This is one sweet indulgence that may make your mouth water, but won’t make your hips wider!

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New Look

February 8, 2008 · 1 comment

If you visit often you’ll notice that I changed templates. It was pointed out to me recently that it was difficult to find the comment box on the old design. I never thought about it before, but it was because it showed up way below all the items on my sidebar. So maybe this will encourage more comments. I’m not too crazy about this design either, but of those available, it worked best with my blog. Maybe I can figure out the CSS Editor now, and make some more improvements.

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I liked this new blog, A Year of CrockPotting, so much when I discovered it this morning after Stephanie left a comment here, that I have to recommend it to you. She’s making something yummy in her crockpot everyday, and she writes about it with great humor. Check it out for good food and good laughs.

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